I know this one guy ... used to be gurhka smoker ... he subtly asked in a post where one might get some of the forbidden fruit.
Did I feel bad when I told him? No ... he seemed like a nice guy from my limited online interactions with him.
So I told him ....
www.papayas-r-us.com.
Now his collection of papayas is truly impressive. His buying hasn't interfered with mine because he graduated to sites that I have not used:
www.ripe-red-papayas.com,
www.nuthin-but-papayas.net and
www.aged-dunhill-payapas-for-all.com.
But in your case I wouldn't sweat not telling somebody. They don't understand, well that's just too FB.