What a douchebag

[DrDubzz]

Originally Posted by bobarian

And I forgot, congrats on the grandson.

yes congrats on your grandson, Kaylee Faith

(just teasin Bob)

[Razorhog]

Congrats!

[icehog3]

Congrats on your Grandson!

And calling the boyfriend a douchebag is an insult to douchebags.

[J0eybb]

Congrats Gramps.

[Blueface]

Sorry to hear.
I would hope for their sake that they can figure it all out and he can get his head together.
Most important thing to that child aside from your daughter is having his father around.
Hope all works out well.

[looking for know]

Congratulations on the new addition to your family. May the baby remains healthy and your daughter remain strong.

As for the douchebag, I'm going to take an opposing position. Having toughed out a relationship with a woman I despised for 13 years, because we shared a child, honestly, sometimes these decisions are best made as soon as possible. This was better than leading her on, cheating, and all the other things that go with a bad relationship. I'm sorry your daughter has to go through this, but Sharing in the birth, growth, and development of a child does not require a girlfriend-boyfriend or marriage-based relationship.

[eber]

Congrats on the granddaughter, I agree with bobarian too about getting the ball rolling ASAP on the paperwork and court stuff.

[CEC_Tech]

Congrats on the Grandson! I would hunt the biatch down and beat the crap out of him, but that's just me.

[Tredegar]

Thanks for everything. I asked my stepdaughter to do a gender check, and yep, it's still a girl.

It seems like my stepdaughter is also pretty much over the dude too. I feel there will be some ramifications down the road but overall I feel she is a lot better off without him.

Oh, and just to show how much of a loser he is, he has no real job, no car (he wrecked his truck last summer and never had any money to get another), and lives with some friends on their couch I believe. I have no real address for him but I do know he's in the National Guard.

Originally Posted by Tredegar

Thanks for everything. I asked my stepdaughter to do a gender check, and yep, it's still a girl.

It seems like my stepdaughter is also pretty much over the dude too. I feel there will be some ramifications down the road but overall I feel she is a lot better off without him.

Oh, and just to show how much of a loser he is, he has no real job, no car (he wrecked his truck last summer and never had any money to get another), and lives with some friends on their couch I believe. I have no real address for him but I do know he's in the National Guard.

That's actually good news to know he's in the Guard as they frown on their people being in this position and will come down hard on them unless they are responsible for their actions both in and out of the Guard. If this guy is that much of a loser he's not the kind of Father the baby will need in it's life,,,that is why there are Grandpas!

[bobarian]

Originally Posted by Cigary

That's actually good news to know he's in the Guard as they frown on their people being in this position and will come down hard on them unless they are responsible for their actions both in and out of the Guard. If this guy is that much of a loser he's not the kind of Father the baby will need in it's life,,,that is why there are Grandpas!

Be sure and pen a letter to his CO, he will make sure that this loser keeps up with his obligations.

[jaydub13]

Thank God your granddaughter has someone like you in her life. Positive male role models are crucial to girls as they grow up, whether that be a father, uncle, or in this case, stogie-smokin grandpa. Both your stepdaughter and her baby are better off without that piece of shite around to screw things up in the future.

Congratulations on both the new addition to the family, and on losing that dead weight!