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[mosesbotbol]

Trespassing Warrant on the kids. They have no legality to be on your property. Whatever of theirs touches your property, I would move it into the garage and tell them that their father can pick it up.

Small claims court for damages they have committed and additional small claims courts for whatever you can think of. He'll have to take time out to go to court and that's a pain. If you are in a HOA, start making noise there.

Start being their nightmare. The father is not someone you want to hang around with, so let him feel the pain.

[Ogre]

Originally Posted by mosesbotbol

Trespassing Warrant on the kids. They have no legality to be on your property. Whatever of theirs touches your property, I would move it into the garage and tell them that their father can pick it up.

Small claims court for damages they have committed and additional small claims courts for whatever you can think of. He'll have to take time out to go to court and that's a pain. If you are in a HOA, start making noise there.

Start being their nightmare. The father is not someone you want to hang around with, so let him feel the pain.

That or the police. I have has Asshat neighbors like that. Damn near impossible to deal with.

[neoflex]

We are in an HOA community and for the most part they are pretty useless but I have gotten to know some of the people on the Management Company side as I did have the unfortunate experience to do a year and a half on the board until I resigned.(Way too much drama and BS for this guy) I didn't think about going that route figuring they probably wouldn't get involved and direct me to the Police but that is a thought. I will have to call tomorrow. Sad part is I was trying not to be a prick and just deal with the guy one on one hoping dealing with him man to man would have solved the problem. Clearly we were raised very differently. The part that pisses me off the most is how he acts like I am the irrational one which is why I figured I would see how others would react if faced with a similar situation and just see if I was just being that unrealistic.

[68TriShield]

Originally Posted by neoflex

We are in an HOA community and for the most part they are pretty useless but I have gotten to know some of the people on the Management Company side as I did have the unfortunate experience to do a year and a half on the board until I resigned.(Way too much drama and BS for this guy) I didn't think about going that route figuring they probably wouldn't get involved and direct me to the Police but that is a thought. I will have to call tomorrow. Sad part is I was trying not to be a prick and just deal with the guy one on one hoping dealing with him man to man would have solved the problem. Clearly we were raised very differently. The part that pisses me off the most is how he acts like I am the irrational one which is why I figured I would see how others would react if faced with a similar situation and just see if I was just being that unrealistic.

Look in your copy of the bylaws,I'm sure it addresses some of the issues.

[Stephen]

Originally Posted by mosesbotbol

Trespassing Warrant on the kids. They have no legality to be on your property. Whatever of theirs touches your property, I would move it into the garage and tell them that their father can pick it up.

Small claims court for damages they have committed and additional small claims courts for whatever you can think of. He'll have to take time out to go to court and that's a pain. If you are in a HOA, start making noise there.

Start being their nightmare. The father is not someone you want to hang around with, so let him feel the pain.

Solid advice here. It's painfully obvious by now that this problem isn't going to correct itself dealing with him man-to-man (since you've given him numerous opportunities to do so), so it's time to get outside authority entities involved.

Originally Posted by Bill86

If you get a hold of the soccer ball just put a knife to it.

Actually did this last year to, "that neighbor" next door to us. After multiple times of hit and run by his heathens, I took the ball over and again asked if he would kindly remind his kids to respect others property. He again said that he didn't know what I was talking about and that his kids were doing no such thing and that wasn't their ball. I apologized for being mistaken, pulled out my Kershaw and mutilated the ball in front of him. No more problems the rest of the summer (at least with errant toys hitting the house/vehicles that is).