Dads advice - the day is approaching fast!

Sounds like everybody is giving you great advice on the baby points, but don't forget mommy! What I did when both of my kids where born was always take the night shift so that she could get some rest. She is working hard enough to get them here and she has many years of hard work ahead of her, of course both of you do but most mothers end up doing more. Also some roses and nice card for her after the birth just to let her know she is still important. You will be the best husband and father on the face of the earth, because trust me her friends are *****ing about their husbands.

Congrats and enjoy ever minute because they will be the best things that ever happened to you!!!!

[RGD.]

Originally Posted by tx_tuff

. . . but don't forget mommy! . . .

This is extremely important that often gets overlooked. Post depression is very real no matter how minor. A ton of attention is going to go to those boys and rightfully so - but your wife needs the care also.

In a nutshell do whatever, whenever you can around the house and for her with out being asked. Same deal at night - handle everything you can without her having to get up. Sure you will be worn out - but it comes with the territory and doesn't last forever.

Congrats!

Ron